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247 rabbis & rabbinical students have joined the kehillah

You've given your life
to l'dor v'dor.
Who's helping you build yours?

Dating as a rabbi means filtering 98% of matches before the first message. We already did that. Human matchmakers, no bots — the only space built entirely for your world.

No commitment. Takes 30 seconds. Free forever for the alpha.

100%
Ordained or actively
in rabbinical study
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Bots.
Every match is human-made.
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Roles — mevakesh,
yente, or shadchan
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שאלה · She'elah

The Question

On every other app, your ordination is
the first awkward conversation.

Every Talmudic sugya begins with a kashe — a hard question that doesn't fit the existing framework. This is ours. We named it.

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The Explanation Tax

Half of every first date is explaining what a rabbi actually does, why you can't just skip Rosh Hashanah, and what "I have Shabbat" means for your Friday nights. For the rest of your life.

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The Minyan Problem

You need ten for a minyan. You need one for a life. Fewer than 4,000 ordained liberal rabbis are actively dating — scattered, not pooled. Your bashert exists. Finding them is the work.

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Hashkafa

Political identity. Sexual identity. Denominational worldview. How you observe. What you believe about continuity. These aren't filter options on other apps. Here, they're the foundation — your hashkafa.

"If a rabbi cannot find their partner in the general pool, have we not an obligation to build a better one?"

— This is the teshuvah (the answer) we are building. Human matchmakers. A curated pool. No apps pretending to know your soul.

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דרך · Derech

The Path

The shadchan. Start to finish.

Jewish tradition has always known: the best introductions are made by people who understand the community from the inside. Every match here is made by a trained shadchan — not a recommendation engine.

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Submit Your Profile

Edut — Your Testimony

Your denomination, your hashkafa, your politics, your practice. No dropdowns that don't fit — you write your own answers. Your shadchan reads every word.

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Share a Dvar Torah

Kavvanah — Intention

2–3 minutes: a teaching you keep returning to, a question a text won't let go of, a parsha that keeps finding you. Your voice is your real introduction.

We match on kavvanah, not keywords.

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The Shadchan Decides

Shidduch — The Match

A human reads your profile, listens to your dvar Torah, and makes an introduction they'd stake their reputation on. No swiping. No queue. A real person said: these two should meet.

עדויות · Eduyot

Testimonies

Built with rabbis, for rabbis.

★★★★★

"I'd spent three years explaining to matches what it means that I can't take a Saturday brunch in October. My matchmaker understood before I had to say a word. She introduced me to someone who actually got it."

Rabbi Miriam K.

Ordained, HUC-JIR · Reform · Chicago

★★★★★

"The dvar Torah prompt changed everything. I talked for two minutes about Vayikra and the ethics of speech. My match had listened to it three times before our first call. We're getting married in May."

Rabbinical Student Daniel R.

3rd Year, JTS · Conservative · New York

★★★★★

"As someone queer, ordained, and politically engaged, I'd given up finding someone who could hold all of that without it being 'complicated.' This community was built for exactly that intersection."

Rabbi Alex T.

Ordained, RRC · Reconstructionist · Philadelphia

★★★★★

"I joined as a Yente because I know when two people belong in the same room. The matching team actually listens to curators. My first pairing is now in couples' chevruta."

Cantor Sarah M.

Yente · Hebrew College-trained · Boston

הסכמות · Haskamot

Rabbinical Endorsements

"Jewish continuity begins with building Jewish homes. No Pork For Us is doing the serious, human work that our communities need."

Rabbi [Name Pending]

Faculty, Hebrew Union College–JIR

"The intersection of progressive Jewish identity and human-led matchmaking is long overdue. This is tikkun for our generation of rabbis."

Rabbi [Name Pending]

Rabbinical Assembly · Conservative Movement

Formal endorsements in progress. Alpha opens with confirmed community backing.

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הזמנה · Hazmanah

The Invitation

Fewer than 4,000 liberal rabbis
are looking for their bashert.

Most of them aren't here yet. The first minyan of 300 builds the foundation.

247 of 300 in our founding cohort 82% full

בְּחִירָה · Bechirah

Choose your role

You can hold more than one — just pick where you want to start.

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Mevakesh — Find Your Bashert

מְבַקֵּשׁ · The Seeker

You're a rabbi or rabbinical student looking for a partner who genuinely understands your world.

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Yente — Community Curator

יֶנְטֶה · The Connector

You know this community and have a gift for seeing who belongs together. Help us make the shidduchim.

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Shadchan — Join the Team

שַׁדְכָן · The Matchmaker

You want to work inside the operation — screening, introducing, and building this kehillah from within.

אֵלּוּ וָאֵלּוּ · Eilu va'Eilu

All of who you are

Your shadchan reads every word. "Eilu va'eilu divrei Elohim chayyim" — both these and these are words of the living God. All of your complexity belongs here.

דְּבַר תּוֹרָה · Dvar Torah

Share your Dvar Torah

This is how we match on kavvanah, not keywords. Your voice note is the most important part of your profile.

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The Prompt

Record 2–3 minutes. A teaching you keep returning to, a question a text won't let go of, a moment of Torah that changed how you see something, or a d'var that surprised even you. No preparation needed. Imperfect is fine.

Tap to begin. We'll give you a soft nudge at 2 minutes.

חֲזַק וֶאֱמָץ · Chazak ve'Ematz

Lock it in.

Your application is complete. We'll be in touch when your cohort opens — usually within 2–3 weeks of alpha launch.

Applying for alpha access. No payment required now or ever without your consent.

מזל

Application received.

מַזָּל טוֹב — Mazal tov on taking the first step.

"Kol hatchalot kashot — all beginnings are hard." This one wasn't.

We'll review your profile and reach out when your cohort opens. In the meantime — tell one person about this. The community only works if the right people are in it.

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